The Question That Needs To Be Asked In Every Relationship (VIDEO)

Progressive pastor Rob Bell and his partner of 20 years, Kristen, say they know the secret to having a more joyful and connected marriage. The Zimzum of Love: A New Way of Understanding Marriage is their first book together, though Rob already has bestsellers under his belt (including Love Wins and What We Talk About When We Talk About God).

“Super Soul Sunday” with Rob and Kristen Bell airs February 15 at 11 a.m. ET on OWN. You can also join the worldwide simulcast on Oprah.com/supersoulsunday or Facebook.com/supersoulsunday.

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